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Grammer

开场问候

Dear Judges, Now I’ll start the lesson. Good morning, Boys and girls. How are you today? Good? Fine? I’m fine, too. Before the class, Let’s sing a song together. If you can sing, sing along with me . “You are my sunshine, my only sunshine, you make me happy.” Do you feel better? Great, let’s start the lesson.

导入

基本跟上一篇一样,只是换了问题,根据材料的主题来问问题。比如:little prince and harry porter. Today, we’re going to learn a new grammar about it , the present perfect tense.

Pre

Now boys and girls, let’s have a prediction according to the title and the conversation on your book. I will read for you.When you listen, think about this question: What’s the material mainly about? Try to think out as many answers as you can.(let’s begin,…..)OK, who wants to have a try?Justin, you please. The passage is about some books they have read. Nice try! Do you agree? OK, maybe you are right. You got the correct answer.

While

Now boys and girls, let’s have a prediction according to the title and the pictures on your book. Take a guess:What’s the passage mainly about? Try to think out as many answers as you can. OK, who wants to have a try?Justin, you please. The passage is about a cartoon Mickey Mouse. Nice try! Do you agree? OK, maybe you are right.Next, Let’s find out the truth in this passage.

语法教学

All right guys, it’s time to learn something new. Here are some sentences. (板书)Let’s look at the first one. Can you read it together? Yes,1……2…
3…. Wonderful! It’s not difficult for you, right?
Now, boys and girls, please try to find the similarity among these sentences? You can work in groups and share your ideas with each other. Here we go.
So, did you find something in common? OK, who would like to try? Amanda, please. You have sharp eyes.Yes, they have the word “have/has” and these are “yes/no” questions.Yes, exactly!
Now, let’s put all your views/points together. Boys and girls, This is what we will learn today, the present perfect tense.
We use it to talk about things that happened in the past but have a connection to the present in some way.
As we can see, the main structure of this grammar is “has/have done”, right? We often use “yet” in this grammar. But we should remind that normally the rules of past participle form are the same as the past form, such as live/lived. However, there are some irregular verbs, such as, put/put/put, read/read/read. We make the negative sentences like this:”has/have not done”.Clear? You are so smart!

巩固

practice makes perfect, so let’s do some exercises. Let’s “Fill in the blanks”. Now look at the Power Point. Please finish it as quickly as you can and we will check the answers later. Here we go.
Have you finished? What’s your answer, Cindy? Have you found your pen yet?-No, I haven’t. Do you agree with Cindy? Good, next one? Mike? He has turned off the light! All right, I think you have mastered it.

总结

How time files! The class is almost over. Before ending our class, let’s have a summary. Who can summarize what we have learned this class? Fiona please. Very good. I hope you can apply what we have learned in your daily life so that we can improve our reading and speaking ability, right?
Our homework is as follows: You should finish the exercise book and search for more information about famous cartoons on the Internet. Next class, we will share them together.

Class is over, see you next time.

其他语法模版

The simple present tense(一般现在时)
the things or actions that happen regularly.
“Verb to be” has three forms: am/is/are. “Verb to do” has two forms: do/does.
If the subject(主语) is first person or plural form, we should use do, if not, we use does.For the third singular form, normally we add s to the end, such as help/helps. The second type is to add es, such as guess/guesses. And the last type is to change y to i and add es, such as study/studies.

the simple past tense.(一般过去时)
We use it to talk about the past events. (When)
As we can see, “verb to be” has two forms:was/were, and we have to the change the
“verb to do” into past form, right? (Details)
We should remind that normally we add ed/d to the end, such as look/looked,
live/lived. The second type is to double write the last letter and add ed, such as
stop/stopped. And the last type is to change y to i and add ed, such as study/studied.
There are also some irregular verbs, such as, put/put, catch/caught.

the simple future tense.(一般将来时中的will/shall + do)
We use it to talk about our intentions or make predictions. (When)
As we can see, the main structure of this grammar is “will+do” , right?(Details)
We should remind that We should use the original form of the verbs. We make the
negative sentence like this: “will not do”. If the subject is the first person, we can
also use ‘shall’ instead of ‘will’.

the simple future tense.(一般将来时中的be going to + do)
We use it to talk about things that happen in the future. (When)
As we can see, the main structure of this grammar is “be going to do” , right?(Details)
We should remind that We should use the original form of the verbs. We make the
negative sentence like this: “be not going to do”.

the present progressive tense(现在进行时)
We use it to talk about what people are doing or what’s going on. (When)
As we can see, the main structure of this grammar is “be doing” , right? (Details)
We should remind that “verb to be” has three forms: am/is/are.We make the negative
sentences like this: “be not doing”.And we should change the verbs into ‘-ing’ form.
Normally we add -ing to the end, such as look/looking. The second type is to remove e
and add -ing, such as write/writing. And the last type is to double write the last letter
and add -ing, such as get/getting.

the past progressive tense.(过去进行时)
We use it to talk about the past events in certain time. (When)
As we can see, the main structure of this grammar is “was/were doing”, right? (Details)
We should remind that we should change the verbs into -ing form. Normally we add
ing to the end, such as look/looking. The second type is to remove ‘e’ and add “ing” ,
such as write/writing. And the last type is to double write the last letter and add ing,
such as get/getting. We make the negative sentences like this: “was/were not doing”.

the present perfect tense.(现在完成时)
We use it to talk about things that happened in the past but have a connection to the present in some way.
As we can see, the main structure of this grammar is “has/have done”, right? We often use “yet” in this grammar. But we should remind that normally the rules of past participle form are the same as the past form, such as live/lived. However, there are some irregular verbs, such as, put/put/put, read/read/read. We make the negative sentences like this:”has/have not done”.

the present passive voice.(一般现在时的被动语态)
We use it to talk about the passive relationships between the subject and the object.(When)
As we can see, the main structure of this grammar is “be+done”, right? (Details)
We should remind that “verb to be” has three forms: am/is/are. We should use the
past participle form of transitive verbs. And there are some irregular verbs, such as,
put/put/put, catch/caught/caught.We make the negative sentences like this: “be not
done”.

the past passive voice.(一般过去时的被动语态)
We use it to talk about the passive relationships between the subject and the object.(When)
As we can see, the main structure of this grammar is “was/were+done”, right? (Details)
We should remind that we should use the past participle form of transitive verbs. And
there are some irregular verbs, such as, put/put/put, catch/caught/caught.We make the
negative sentences like this: “w as/were not done”.

the attributive clause. (定语从句-名词之后出现)
Describe the nouns more exactly.
the relative pronouns(代词) should be used to link the main clause and the clause.They are ‘that/which/who/whom/whose’.
’that/which/who’ can be used as subject(主语) or object(宾语) of a clause, ‘whom’ can be as object, whose can be as attributive(定语). ’That’ can be used to refer to the things or people, ‘which’ for things, ‘who/whom’ for people.

the objective clause.(宾语从句-谓语动词后面出现)
express our thoughts more exactly.
There are three kinds of objective clauses. The first one is with ‘that’, the second one is with ‘if/whether’, the last one is with ‘wh-words’.
The order of words in the objective clauses should be written in statements and the tense should be changed according to the main clause.

The first conditional if.
Talk about the things happen in certain condition.
The main structure of this grammar is “First conditional if+will”(板书例句)
The main clause is in the future tense. The clause is in the present tense.(主将从现) And the first conditional if can be put before or after the main clause.

the imperative sentence.(祈使句)
Ask for permission, order or warn sb (not) to do sth.
The imperatives begin with the original form of the verb
The subject of the imperative is ‘you’ which is omitted. We make the negative sentences like this. “Don’t do sth”.

There be sentences.
we use it to Describe things or people.
As we can see, The main structure of this grammar is There be something/somebody in someplace/sometime, right?
But we should remind that “verb to be” has two forms: is/are. We should change it according to the nouns after it. We make the negative sentences like this: “There is/ are not.”

the nouns.(名词)
Describe things or people.
There are countable nouns and uncountable nouns, right?
Countable nouns have two forms: the singular and the plural. Normally, we add s to the end, such as book/books. The second type is to add es, such as class/classes. And the last type is to change y to i and add es, such as family/families. There are also some irregular nouns, such as man/men, sheep/sheep, child/children.

the comparatives.(比较级)
Compare different objects or people.
We usually add ‘er/r’ to the end of adjectives or adverbs, such as tall/taller, slow/slower, late/later. And add ‘more’ before the multi-syllable words, such as ‘more beautiful’.
There are some irregular changes, such as good/better, bad/worse.

The superlatives.(最高级)
Compare different objects or people.
We usually add est/st to the end of the adjectives or adverbs, such as tall/tallest, slow/slowest, late/latest.And add ‘most’ before the words, such as most beautiful.
There are some irregular changes, such as good/best, bad/worst. And we should add ‘the’ before the superlatives.

Adverbs of frequency.(频率副词)
Talk about how often we do things.
There are always, usually, often, sometimes, hardly ever(seldom), never.
If we put them in order, it will be like that always>usually>often>sometimes>hardly ever(seldom)>never.

The indefinite pronouns some and any.(普通不定代词)
Refer to people or things.
Normally some is used in statements(肯定句), any is used in negative statements or questions, right? They can both replace or modify the plural nouns and uncountable nouns.(可数名词复数以及不可数名词)
If we want the answer to the question is yes, we can also use some in questions. For example, would you like some tea?

The indefinite pronouns many and much.
Refer to people or things.
Many can replace or modify plural nouns, and much can replace or modify the uncountable nouns, right?
We use “How many…” questions to ask about the plural nouns, and “How much…” question to ask about the uncountable nouns.

the compound indefinite pronouns something, anything, nothing(复合不定代词)
Refer to people or things.
If the subject is something, anything… it is seen as singular(单数形式), right?
We should put the adjectives after the indefinite pronouns. For example, something important.

the modal verbs.(情态动词)
Make inferences.(作出推断)
The main structure of this grammar is “modal verbs + be”, right?
Some modal verbs can be used for making inferences. They are must, can’t, could, may, might. We use must to show that we think something is probably true. And use may, might and could to show that we think something is possibly true. Use can’t to show that you are almost sure something is not true.

先谈一下面试时候的一些想法。
首先,要做到把提前准备好的模版给记熟,以防见到面试官紧张忘记了。当然也可以平时多积累一些通用句,真正忘记时候还可以救场。
其次,在考场拿到题目时,要懂得与当前一些节日、实事结合起来,这样导入时候也能更加有趣,同时能吸引到面试官。导入完之后问问题以及板书的时候都要假装是要在很多学生面前教书的,眼神给到四周,板书也要不完全挡住黑板。
最后,一定要自信,自信的人真的会发光,加油~
下面是我面试时候准备的一些模版~

Reading/Listening

开场问候

Dear Judges, Now I’ll start the lesson. Good morning, Boys and girls. How are you today? Good? Fine? I’m fine, too. Before the class, Let’s sing a song together. If you can sing, sing along with me . “You are my sunshine, my only sunshine, you make me happy.” Do you feel better? Great, let’s start the lesson.

导入

At the beginning, I’ll show you a video, and you should try to answer the question: What can you see in the video? Who would like to try? Blair, please. You see different cartoons, such as Snow White and Tom and Jerry.Thank you, Blair, you set a good example for us. You know so much about cartoons.Do you want to learn more? Today, let’s learn a new lesson — Cartoon.

读前

Before reading, To help you understand the passage better, let’s learn some words. Now, Look at the first one. Smart.Form example, Zhu Geliang is very smart and he can solve many problems. Can you understand now? Great! The next one cute. Look at the picture. What’s that? A cat. So cats are very cute and it’s very lovely. So cute means lovely. You are so cute. Cats are so cute. Birds are so cute, okay, wonderful How about the last one? Ivory. Here is a picture about ivory. It forms long teeth of elephants. Read after me, ivory, ivory. Well done! All of you did a good job.

读中

Now boys and girls, let’s have a prediction according to the title and the pictures on your book. Take a guess:What’s the passage mainly about? Try to think out as many answers as you can. OK, who wants to have a try?Justin, you please. The passage is about a cartoon Mickey Mouse. Nice try! Do you agree? OK, maybe you are right.Next, Let’s find out the truth in this passage.

读后

Let’s read it together.When you read, think about this question:What’s the passage mainly about? You should read quickly and check your prediction.Let’s begin.
OK, guys, are you right? Wow, I heard John said he had the correct prediction.The passage tells us some information about Mickey Mouse. Oh, most of you are right! I am so proud of you.
For the second time, you should read it carefully and catch some detail informations. After that, you should answer some true or false question. Okay? Let’s start. Time is up. The first one, It’s easy, right? Answer me together. It’s true. Then the second question. Lily, what’s your answer? It ’s false. Can you correct it ? Great. Thank you. The last one, boys come on. Eric please. It’s true.perfect.

巩固

We have done so many exercises.It’s time for fun. Let’s have a group discussion. Think about the topic: Introducing your favorite cartoon characters to group members. Work in group of 4 and discuss with your partners. Then show your work on the stage. You have 5 minutes to prepare.Are you ready? Go! Time is up. Which group goes first? Christina and your partners, please. Wow, your ideas are very creative and Your pronunciation is perfect.Let’s give them a big hand.

总结

How time files! The class is almost over. Before ending our class, let’s have a summary. Who can summarize what we have learned this class? Fiona please. Very good. I hope you can apply what we have learned in your daily life so that we can improve our reading and speaking ability, right?
Our homework is as follows: You should finish the exercise book and search for more information about famous cartoons on the Internet. Next class, we will share them together.

Class is over, see you next time.

什么时候需要用到前端骨架屏呢? 其实就是在首页还没完全加载出来,可以先把骨架屏弄出来,避免白屏给用户造成不好的用户体验。那么具体是要如何去弄出来呢?设置Dps.config.js,配置如下:

其中url字段输入待生成骨架屏页面的地址,比如百度(https://baidu.com)也可以。output主要代表输出。其中filepath代表生成骨架屏的存放页面,一般为项目的入口页面;然后injectSelector代表插入页面的某个节点。includeElement用于定制或排除某些节点的绘制行为,其中通过id来定位,比如需不需要在这个id上渲染。还能判断tagName是什么的时候,渲染什么。init的作用是生成骨架屏之前的操作,比如删除干扰节点。

基本配置字段说明

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  const dpsConfig = {
url: 'file:///Users/myname/Desktop/project/pro/scaleTips/dist/index.html#/',
// 待生成骨架屏页面的地址,用百度(https://baidu.com)试试也可以
output: {
filepath: '/Users/myname/Desktop/project/pro',
// 生成骨架屏的存放页面,一般为项目的入口页面
injectSelector: '#app'
// 生成的骨架屏插入页面的节点
},
// header: {
// height: 40,
// background: '#1b9af4'
// },
// background: '#eee',
// animation: 'opacity 1s linear infinite;',
//用于定制或排除某些节点的绘制行为
includeElement: function(node, draw) {
// 定制某个节点画出来的样子,带上return false
if(node.id == 'ui-alert') {
//跳过该节点及其子节点
return false;
}
if(node.tagName.toLowerCase() === 'img') {
// 对该图片生成宽100%,高8%,颜色为红色的色块
draw({
width: 100,
height: 8,
left: 0,
top: 0,
zIndex: 99999999,
background: 'red'
});
return false;
}
},
// writePageStructure: function(html) {
// 自己处理生成的骨架屏
// fs.writeFileSync(filepath, html);
// console.log(html)
// },
init: function() {
// 生成骨架屏之前的操作,比如删除干扰节点
}
}

module.exports = dpsConfig;

当需要与原生端进行交互时,我们本地其实看不见他们回传以及打印出来的数据。这时候就需要我们用到插件去实现,有个很好用的vconsole,能清楚地看见network、console等信息,跟我们浏览器的f12看见的控制台差不多,接下来会分享如何引入它:

H5手机端日志工具(vconsole手机端):

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<script src="https://cdn.bootcdn.net/ajax/libs/vConsole/3.15.1/vconsole.min.js"></script>
<script>
// 初始化 vConsole
var vConsole = new VConsole();
console.log('vConsole is ready.');
</script>

如果想要与原生端去进行交互,还需要用到window才行,分两种情况,传数据以及获取数据,针对不同情况,我们会采取不同的措施:

第一种情况:传数据给原生端

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if (window.webkit != undefined) {
//这是ios端定义的
window.webkit.messageHandlers.getUserInfo.postMessage(null);
} else {
//这是android端定义的feedback
feedback.getUserInfo();
}

if (window.webkit != undefined) {
window.webkit.messageHandlers.feedback.postMessage({
title: "测试分享的标题",
content: "测试分享的内容",
url: "https://github.com/maying1992",
});
} else {
// try {
// result = feedback.getUserInfo();
// } catch(err){
// }
feedback.postMessage();
}

第二种情况:获取原生端的数据

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created() {
//window挂载
window.setUserInfo = this.setUserInfo;
},

setUserInfo(param) {
const u = navigator.userAgent;
const isiOS = !!u.match(/\(i[^;]+;( U;)? CPU.+Mac OS X/); //ios终端
const result = JSON.parse(param);
if (isiOS) {

this.queryParams = result.userInfo.token;

//兼容原生端那边传过来的不统一值
if (
result.userInfo.userId == undefined ||
result.userInfo.userId == 0
) {
this.usrIdd = 0;
} else {
this.usrIdd = result.userInfo.userId;
}

window.localStorage.setItem("lang", result.userInfo.language);

} else {
this.queryParams = result;
if (result.userId == undefined || result.userId == 0) {
this.usrIdd = 0;
} else {
this.usrIdd = result.userId;
}
window.localStorage.setItem("lang", result.language);

}
this.$i18n.locale = localStorage.getItem("lang");
// let data = {
// 'name' : 'xiaoming'
// };
return localStorage.getItem("lang");
}

当需要通过按钮跳转到app时:

直接用 a 标签的 href 跳转,前提是原生应用定义了 myapp://*** 作为触发特定功能的URL,可参考 Instagram 的 H5 跳转 app 的竞品例子,instagram://**
一般跳不过去就是原生端不支持。

JS基础在前端中还是非常重要的,时常分不清楚的时候,要多多回顾这个知识点~

JavaScript 基础总结(变量提升、严格模式)


变量与函数提升规则

  • 变量提升:按顺序执行,变量声明提升但赋值不会提升。
  • 函数提升:整个函数体提升到全局作用域顶部。
  • 优先级:函数提升 > 变量提升。
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console.log(a); // undefined
var a = 2;

foo(); // 正常调用
function foo() {
console.log("函数提升成功");
}

使用 use strict 严格模式

作用:

  • 避免创建意外的全局变量
  • 禁止使用未声明变量,防止内存泄漏;
  • this 默认绑定到 undefined 而非 window
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function foo() {
"use strict";
console.log(this.a); // ❌ TypeError
}

var a = 2;
foo(); // 严格模式下 this 是 undefined,无法读取 this.a

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(function() {
"use strict";
foo(); // 严格模式下调用函数则不影响默认绑定
})();

function foo() {
console.log(this.a);
}

var a = 2;

1. 登录广东政务服务网申请毕业生接收

  • 打开 广东政务服务网
  • 搜索“人才引进” → 选择“接收毕业生”
  • 填写个人资料后,下载电子版《申请书》

2. 报到证改派

  • 每个地区流程略有不同,建议致电报到证抬头地区的人社局咨询
  • 示例:汕尾市城区 → 在广东政务服务网搜索“档案转出” → 点击在线办理
  • 上传报到证、申请表等资料到“调函”栏目
  • 不久后,工作人员会联系确认是否需要电子版“同意改派”文件(推荐选择电子版), 她会把电子版的“同意改派”发到我们填的邮箱里。

其他地区如潮州市:可直接在广东政务服务网搜索“报到证改派”在线办理

3. 上传材料至“广东就业创业”小程序

  • 打开小程序,选择应届生接收模块
  • 上传材料:电子版“同意改派”的报到证、申请表、三方协议等
  • 等待校方审核通过

4. 返回广东政务服务网上传最终材料

  • 上传审核通过后的报到证等资料
  • 审核通过后会收到含有“指标卡”的短信通知

5. 在“深圳本地宝”预约现场办理

  • 打开“深圳本地宝”微信公众号,搜索“大学生”
  • 进入现场办理流程 → 点击“户政预约” → 选择“普通户政预约”
  • 预约业务选择“接收应届生户籍迁入”
  • 选择时间和地点并预约成功后,带好上述资料和以下材料前往办理:
    • 户口本
    • 身份证及二代回执
    • 一寸白底照片

6. 第一次现场办理后领取档案袋

  • 办理后工作人员会发放档案袋
  • 需在五个工作日后再次前往办理

7. 第二次预约并完成迁户手续

  • 提前预约,带齐上次材料再次前往办理
  • 办理成功后可选择身份证邮寄

备注: 整个流程较为繁琐,建议提前准备资料并留意预约时间。

《遇见未知的自己》读书笔记

何为“未知”?

“自己”即指“真我”,从“我是谁”到后来的“从有到无”,整本书以若菱与一位智者老人的对话为主线,引申出许多深刻的生命观念。


核心观点

  • 外面没有别人,只有你自己。
    所有的外境,其实都是内心的投射。

  • 与潜意识对话的黄金时刻
    想象自己已经实现目标的最佳时刻,是清晨将醒未醒、夜晚将睡未睡之间的那段时间,因为那时我们最接近潜意识。

  • 关键修炼:觉察、臣服、战胜胜肽(小我)

    • 觉察:关注当下的自己,不批判地观察情绪和反应。
    • 臣服:接受现实,而不是抗拒。
    • 胜肽小我:代表恐惧、比较、焦虑的内在声音,要学会看见并超越它。

  • 冥想、感恩、付出

    • 冥想时,要设想自己已经拥有渴望的生活。
    • 在实现之前就先学会感恩。
    • 保持利他、愿意付出的心态。

  • 少关心别人,多关心自己

    • 注意力回到自己身上,关注内在世界。
    • 当情绪上来时,觉察身体哪个部位最不舒服,了解内在信号。

总结

这本书不只是关于“找到自己是谁”,更是提醒我们“成为那个自己”。内在力量的唤醒,需要持续的觉察、练习与自我超越。

《当我谈跑步时,我谈些什么》

也就是看了这本书,才知道世界上会有另一个自己在做着自己喜欢的事情。看这本书之前,从没有看过村上君写的书。知道有这么一个火人,也知道那么多火书,但就是没怎么看过。可论及跑步呀,觉得能与之有所交流。一直跑下去,会不会就到月球上了呢?跑步并非为了长命百岁,而是在有限生命里让自己活得更轻松点罢了。

惊喜于能发现村上君跑步时的想象力,天马行空我很喜欢,我也曾幻想过很多,也会跑着跑着就突然想起一句歌词,什么现在加快速度追幸福呀 blala……长跑需要耐力,但没有想象力可不行哟。当然前提是热爱跑步,一个不喜欢跑步的人,你说再多也无动于衷;一个热爱跑步的人,即使是雨天,也想要在停雨空隙去相遇另一个自己。人本孤独,但精神却能得到共鸣。

想着未来一定会坚持跑下去,不管世界如何变化。自从有次在外一整天走了 30 公里,除了身体上晒伤的疼痛以外,我更喜欢的是精神世界的富足。没经历过,就没有话语权。可能我跟陈坤一样,是个悲观的极乐主义者,在世上积极活着,却也看透红尘。不以物喜,不以己悲。脉搏也降到一分钟 50 多次,看来还是很适合慢跑的。说这么多,主要还是兴趣使然。只要不限制我的自由,一切好说。

想着来年,我也会参加马拉松,然后旁边的人都在为我加油,那该有多 happy。

“我不是人,是一架纯粹的机器,所以什么也无须感觉,唯有向前奔跑。”

极为像的一点就是我们都喜欢不停地奔跑,不是那种觉得自己快不行了就走几步,也不是适当的时候停下来看风景。可能每个人的见解不同。但我觉得能不停跑下去的人才是真正的王者。

当抵达终点那一刻,会觉得怎么那么酷,一股自豪感涌上来,就好比中了彩票或是走了狗屎运。这是原则,亦是我的骄傲。

噢对,好比尚三哥在终点等着我,然后我得意地笑了。

阿太

阿太倔强坚强,豁达的心态值得人学习。父亲最强大的地方就是娶了我的母亲。一个伟大的女人。真正的女人就是应该要积极乐观面对一切,用自己的双手打造自己想要的未来。

虽然有偷窃,但也是生活所迫,为了生存,为了家人,放下面子干一些违心事,又何尝不是一种积极的心态呢?而不是一哭二闹三上吊。

想来作者能有如此作为,跟他伟大的母亲脱不了干系。

那可爱的母亲呀!为了父亲的面子,为了父亲开心,都坚持要把房子建完,这何尝不是一种力量,向往心之所向,佩服这种勇气。

其实最了解父亲的人是母亲,母亲知道父亲好面子,爱情不就是这样吗?你不用说,我懂,我懂你懂我,所以我们才会在一起这么久。

张美丽

从哪里跌倒,就从哪里爬起来。仿佛看见一个追求真爱,为爱为自己想要的东西不懈努力的人,虽说最终还是被迫性解放了自己,但她曾经的所作所为仍让我敬佩。

舆论的力量是强大的,但比其而言,张美丽的内心力量更强大。

全书的确包含了很多他自己的“偏见”,但我觉得他真实幽默,语言简单易懂,其实各个小标题就是告诉我们该做什么。

懂生活

生活从来不是你想怎样就能变成怎样的。生活中多发现美,多从他人角度看待事情,是好的。同时自己还要有自知之明。

懂爱情

谢耳朵说:人穷尽一生追寻另一个人类共度一生的事,我一直无法理解。或许我自己太有意思,无需他人陪伴。所以我祝你们在对方身上得到的快乐,与我给自己的一样多。
靠另一个人永远无法让你摆脱孤独,只能靠自己对生活的热情。经营一段感情要的是理智,自由是不可剥夺的。这让我想起对前任,我曾经有查看过他的手机,我觉得挺不对,以后不会再出现这种事情了。

懂兵法

主要就是介绍女追男或男追女的技巧,以及如何经营好一段感情,就是大智慧。同时千万别因为家庭放弃自己的事业,不要跟公公婆婆住一起(但我的观点还是觉得因人而异),要有属于自己的兴趣爱好。

懂婚姻

忍,忠一。对于不婚主义,当然也没什么想多说的了。

懂失意

每一次失恋,只不过是在为真爱让路。还是那句勉强不来,我爱你,所以我祝你一生如意,即使陪着你的人,不是我。
做自己想做的事,不要管他人怎么想。只关心自己在乎的人。

懂阅读

What Why How。一直阅读下去,不要求快,要求精。

懂情趣

介绍了他与妻子的日常 sweet,告诉我们不分手,就不知道世界上还有那么多人值得我们去爱。如果找到了,是我的幸运,如果找不到,我也有能力让自己快乐地活着。
高情商地活着,会发觉世界是那么美好。

懂交际

跟正经人交往,跟不同人要有不同方式去与之交往,拒绝别人也是一门艺术。如果没有厚脸皮去找别人还钱,干脆别借。

懂人性

只能说我可能在人性方面持怀疑态度,管不了别人,那么就只能管好自己,别做个恶俗的人。

懂善恶

有些人在你生命中出现,就是为了给你上一课。何为善何为恶,我宁愿相信他人的话,因为人与人之间的信任本来就是有一方愿意相信,另一方才会不负此信。
即使被骗,也是告诉我们下次同样的坑,别再跳了。但别因为入了一次坑,就不再相信了,善人始终存在。
上帝让右手成为右手,就是对右手最高的奖赏;同理,上帝让善人成为善人,也就是对善人的最高奖赏。
这让我想起,有次在外,洗手间里没有纸巾,原本是想问旁边的好朋友有没有纸巾的,结果旁边一位陌生女子听见了,立刻拿出包纸巾给我,此等善举,让我倍感荣幸。
而善良还需要有原则,否则害人害己。

懂财富

穷人之所以穷,是思维的匮乏。要想富起来,不能只在自己身体上投资,而要在大局上有思维的开拓。看透问题的本质。
时间是有限,在有限时间内如何快速致富?找到一门自己感兴趣的学科,学以致用,发散思维,与社会息息相关的行业,去做。

懂社会

要有抱负,一步一个脚印。要有自己独立的人格,要能为自己所做的事情负责。学会转化一种让自己幸福的能力,然后改变自己。

懂生死

生死学里几个词:无死不生,向死而生,知死而后生。颇为有趣且发人深思。人就是因为知道有一天会死去,才会争取好好地活着。
我想,真到了那天,我会主动拥抱死亡。

这世界上缺的不是完美的人,而是从心底给出的正义、真心、无畏和同情—这是今天看完《无问西东》后给我最感慨的话。生而为人,便要心之所向,无问西东。
大家都知道有因必有果,却不只因果皆由缘而起。叔本华跟尼采,有时间必好好读佳作。

懂远游

这部分写了琢磨先生在西藏的经历,看过很多书,都是大家想去西藏的。也许去了那里,人真的能体会到人生的不易。
美国不如英国自律,日本对美食态度极佳,常把“对不起”挂在嘴边,不喜欢给别人添麻烦。

懂职场

首先要懂得吃苦,然后要清楚自己,发掘自己的天赋所在。以终为始,聚焦所做。

懂教育

我只知道,每一个出生在这世上的小孩都是纯粹的,如果不好好教育,长大后便不可能为国之栋梁。

懂娱乐、懂自由

人生有两个方向:一个方向是往大处拼搏,保持对事业的激情;一个方向是往小处生活,保持做人的温度。
每天睁开眼,对自己说声:欧耶